You can soak in your pity party or take life by the horns. The hell with what other people have to say. Get up each day and prove it to yourself! You are in competition with you and no one else. You are the one in control of your destiny and no one else.
The more you complain and bitch about your circumstances the greater they become. Swing the bat. The more attempts you take eventually you will hit the bulls eye. If you sit on the sidelines being a spectator, you will not get anywhere. It’s easier to soak your head in the sand and whine about how hard life is. Think about all the time you are wasting complaining, whining, and making up excuses. Focus on the positives and not the negative. Cut out the shit people from your life and dead weight.
True freedom comes when you learn to let go of all the shit that is holding you back. Leave the dead weight behind you. Most people get stuck in life because they listen to all the bullshit that is being thrown on them from other people. Never listen to people who are willing to give free advice. The ones who toss out advice need their ego stroked.
Ignore all the noise and have an insane amount of focus. Focus brings clarity. When you have all sorts of people telling you who to be, what to do, and where to go it’s easy to get lost in all that crap. Drain out the opinions and negativity from other people. Do not let their noise get inside your own head.
Keep your goals out in sight and never lose sight of them. Be very careful about who you reveal them to because people will try to talk you out of them. Make sure you are around people who are encouraging you not talking you out of things! It’s your life. Don’t live it through the opinions of other people. Be yourself in a world full of try hards.